Hello,
I see that there is a bat file for separate Desktop and separate VR execution.
Can I do both?
I use Quest 2.
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When you open the VR version, it also opens a window on your computer. If the window is black try pressing "m" to show the monitor view. You can also press F1 to show the menu bar from the desktop window.
Also you can check from the VR headset:
Turning on/off monitor view:
https://hub.virtamate.com/wiki/user_preferences_vr1/