I think I'm done trying to talk or help those people, what I just experienced convinces me not to talk to those people anymore.

I join this developper discord to show him some work i did years ago, it was a piece i made for a story of mine for three elves girls but i killed them off and don't use them in my story. Immediately after out of the blue he claims I would be the "spirtomb guy" i had no idea what it means and he stayed silent after that, i looked it up and it seems to be a huge harassment campaign on reddit where people would claim these folks are actually this spirtomb guy and use that as an excuse to harass those users and have them banned, i called him out on that and demanded explanations and he banned me from his server. 

This isn't my only horrible experience with game developpers, tbh these guys can be on their own for all I care, I'm done trying to help.