I find it kinda funny how you edited your post to try and put blame on the community, all while having a faulty narrative where you contradict yourself at every turn:
1. If it's an adult-sim (your own words), FUTA doesn't exist IRL. While I do personally like that 'philia', it has nothing realistic in it.
2. You talk big about non-binary and trans content and romance, but it exists and, in fact, this game has much more detail about that than almost any other out there, making the exception of Degrees of Lewdity.
Personally, I don't consider this a 'realistic sim' at all, since there's open sexual harassment and bullying, something heavily prosecuted in big 2026, specially when it involves young people. It's just a matter of the vision the Devs have and what they like or dislike. Then again, it's their game, so it's their rules; I just miss an updated list of tags that they won't be ever adding to the game, so we can at least bring closure to this arguments.
All of that being said, you are either trolling and seeking your '5 minutes of glory' (hence all the downvotes), or never actually played this game (again, deserving the disdain from the real community).
Edited: Some typos