As a fellow lurker by heart I appreciate the effort it takes to write a comment, even if it’s driven by frustration. Hopefully someday I can make something more approachable.
But also, it’s like I’m giving away XXL condoms for free, bc I have a thick, long, veiny cock, and you’re complaining that my condoms are too loose! Have some empathy for us big guys! Maybe I should think of a different analogy, but you get my point.