I can totally look at that and see it in the way that you may read it but I dont think that message read inherently with tone. I recommend just as a rule that if there's a possibility someone didnt intend hostility dont attack on it.
The Creator is free to make any game they want but I don't think it's a dramatic alternation, many games of this sort absolutely let you choose genatailia prior to starting. Not many games like this are as well animated or made and I dont think any harm is done in making it more accessible.
I'm enjoying it regardless