Don't know what you're implying, but I'm going to assume; I already know about the lock system for the respect value--learned that you can't save after using the console, however.
To you, Samuel the Eagle, I feel like my asks are fairly tame: please channel that energy elsewhere.
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When you're in the game proper, you can open the menu and roll over to the options panel where there's a toggle to lock the Respect Value. This can let you get the full experience of both not losing your partner's respect when accidentally getting molly-whopped and choosing when to lose that respect if you're horny for some degradation/ntr.