We know, but eating soup every single day would get tiring for anyone. I mean, you are only on patch 0.14, and you expect the main character to stay a loser and a cuck for the next 20 patches until the game is finally complete?
Personally, one of the things I enjoy about these stories is the drama, the conflict, having exciting things actually happen. The cuckold theme gets old when, patch after patch, you are constantly being punished. At some point, you can already tell how things are going to end or where the story is heading without having to think too hard about it.
Nobody is saying the main character can't be a cuck sometimes, but that doesn't mean him having some fun beyond the goth girl and the cuckold stuff have to be mutually exclusive concepts.