You're not asking. Using the term "deserve" means you're demanding, even if that's not your intent. And yes, saying you deserve something you did not create or invest heavily in (key words there) is in fact entitlement.
Yes devs love receiving financial support from everyone WHO ENJOYS THEIR WORK not someone who throws money in and then start making demands because the thing they willingly supported with themes up front and center wasn't to their liking. Yeah, that's called being selfish. You ignored what the game was and started "asking" for it to be changed. (Please notice how I'm not talking about the "female audience" but YOU specifically.)
Ignoring a segment of your audience while taking community money is in no way hypocritical, don't use words you don't know the meaning of. You willingly gave money to support THIS game as it is. The dev did not seek you out, you sought out this game and decided to support them. If it's not to your liking and you supported them thinking you can ask them to make it to your liking, you are just dumb.
Yeah, and I said you have the right to voice your complaint. It's one of your two only rights. Do you remember what the other one was?