i mean my thought is it could be random like when we attempt to mate one you have to do some mating fight if your a dom as it would be dom v dom but if your the sub type you could just let her take you and in both cases the break state could happen
for doms its about trying to break the other person but for a sub player its about being broken
could be nice if the dev added sub and dom mechanics where being a dom is about standing your ground while being a sub is about being as attractive as possible like making the girls want to dom us over us wanting to dom them