Just a heads up for any future comments you might leave "shemale" isn't really an appropriate term and most people would deem it derogatory or degrading. It might be more appropriate to say "futa" or "trans" depending on the context, but you can always just play it safe and say "some of these characters have penises and there is no toggle to turn off the penises".
Also, you do not need to assign a gender to the tentacles. It is literally alien goop from another planet, why would you expect it to conform to our understanding of gender? If your enjoyment of sexual material relies on something that is strictly male penetrating something that is strictly female, you should maybe consider reflecting inward and considering why that might be the case.